Thx soberleigh, u r right on point confrontation won't solve anything. I don't think the counselors know it is going on or don't realize how bad it is because these people sneak around in hallways, bathrooms or smoke area and say very unsupportive negative things about the person. Now they don't say things as openly in my presence any longer cause they know I'm going to call them on it. Which depending on how you look at it is a good thing because I refuse to jump on this band wagon to go along to get along. But I want peace in my own head... I may just be pissed. Is it ok to be pissed off when newly getting sober?