One of the things that changed in me was the needing to be with people vs wanting to be with people. I didn't realize how addicted I was to activity and people and going, going, going all of the time. Getting comfortable just being me all by myself was a new thing. But once my brain quieted down, things kinda fell in place. Give yourself some time and be very kind to yourself. The better you take care of YOU, the better friend you will be.