are you sure they were judging you or trying to make you face certain things ?
i know for me i felt people judged me in aa all the time, when i was new and wasnt on any sort of program i had to deal with the aa super sober experts who would judge me based on my lack of experience etc
in there head they were merely only trying to help me as they judged me compared to themselves etc
so maybe thats what happend with you ?