how pushy should I be?
So my AH has been cutting down on his drinking but now is experiencing symptoms that I think is liver disease. I've mentioned it to him and he continually refuses to go to the doctor. It's scary for me since my father died of liver cancer (and ironically, was not a drinker at all!!). Anyway, I know I can't force him but it's driving me crazy that he so steadfastly refuses to go. This is not unusual. He's never liked the doctor, but who does? I haven't really been pushing it simply because it is his choice but should I be pushier? I just don't know. Thoughts anyone?