Thanks for the replies.I am just very worried about my six-year old daughter. She is "ours" but biologically mine. He has been "dad" since she was two but hee is showing some angry behavior that makes me scared. We had the talk tonight "we teach people how to treat us" but she is too young to understand. I think I maybe just married a jerk. Perhaps need a different forum. But I know well the daddy-was-absent, daddy-was-a-jerk complex in young girls. Trying to do the best for this angel.