Lance, I don't know the situation with the house guest but it must have been pretty bad to have such a devastating effect on you. But I'm also hearing you say that you have had a solid relationship of 15 years. You sound exhausted to me. You can always call a hot line to talk to a counselor. I think your psychologist friend was a good call to make and I hope she calls you back soon. Maybe you could go to a hotel and get a good night's sleep. The office can't be comfortable. I also hope that you've let your partner know that you are safe and ok. He must be worried sick. Whatever you do, don't drink. You won't be able to resolve this and you will feel horrible. This will pass....Hang in there.