Addicts are master manipulators and thieves. I can't believe the things my XABF stole from me. Sadly, my XABF exploits the smallest showing of kindness until there is nothing left, and then he bails. At first it was hurtful, then it was disappointing, at this point, NOTHING surprises me. I know that there is no limit to how vile his behavior can be. I truly hope you don't experience too much negativity, but I've learned to never say never. Protect yourself and your children. Those are the things that you can control.