Originally Posted by
MissFixit 
However, if he is hell bent on throwing money away, ask for something that appreciates in value that you can use/sell if you two part ways down the road. Stocks in your name, an investment in your name, cash, etc...
I'm glad I wasn't the only one thinking this. Actually I was thinking, "If you insist, then savings bonds might be nice...."
I didn't get a lot of this big demonstrative type of "buy-back" from RAH, he showed it in other ways, but the point was the same: After manipulating me in whatever fashion he then tried to manipulate me into forgiving him so that he could forgive
himself & let go of whatever guilt he was holding & then things could go back to *normal* (In his mind that is, I would still be irritated & he would go one acting as though it had never happened.) Ugh. Too much work to play these reindeer games.