Hi Brad
Welcome to SR...
You have quite a road ahead of you, but is sounds like you have decided to make some positive changes in your life.
I know it was not easy to come here and be honest about your situation and for that I salute you....
Here are three links to site's you may find helpful in your journey to recovery.
http://www.firesofdarkness.com/ http://www.no-porn.com/ http://www.visionmiami.com/articles/sexheal/