Shutterbug, I'm with ya. Music is my therapy. I love artists that can put into words what I'm feeling or that I can relate to. I think it's a healthy outlet to listen to music even if it's dark or sad or about what we are going tthrough. There is a thread on here about songs for us in Alanon where people have posted songs that they related to in dealing with their addicts. I wish I knew how to post it for you. I enjoyed your post!