I dont know why men seem to want it when they are drunk. They are clumsy and often dont function properly.
That's for d**n sure! Been there, done that, it was long ago but boy do I remember how gross it was! I gave in because it was easier than trying to get away from a drunk who outweighed me by 70 lbs. And sometimes I got lucky and he passed out before doing much of anything. Blech.
Very sorry it's happening to you, Katchie. No one deserves that.