Originally Posted by
gippy1968 
Would you not going cause more problems in your relationship than his drinking might?
Yes, if I didn't go on the cruise, that would cause a lot of problems. My husband loves for me to be around him. To put it bluntly, me not going on this cruise would be like ending our relationship, that is how serious it would be.
As my former sponsor in AA told me the other day, she says we are more connected than most couples she knows.