sometimes we have to stop and say......how on earth did my life get to the point where I am studying the toilet bowl remnants??? where I can give an exact count of someone else's alcohol consumption based on the day of the week? where did I go in all of this????
it could be nosebleeds........which may indicate JUST a nosebleed or snorting something. that could be why he is able to get up and get moving and seem to be able to "function" after drinking. maybe not.
but.....unless HE sees it as a problem and HE does something about it.....it's just another thing, right?