Originally Posted by
desypete 
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if one of my kids got into trouble i would have to do everything that i could .
Many of the parents here have done everything they could to help their kids and found that enabling was only making things worse. personally, I had my adult son show up at my home waving a handgun at his younger brothers and sisters.
Desypete, I am sorry for the loss of you son, but many of the parents here are looking for support in detaching with love to let their children (many of whom are adults) find their bottom. It doesn't mean we don't love our children it just means we have to love ourselves a little bit more.
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