Welcome -- and sorry you find yourself needing to be here!
I hope that's the wake-up call he needs. It's so different what wakes different addicts up -- Axh's therapist said most men will hit bottom when they lose their job or their family, if not before, but he also warned me that there are those that don't seem to have a bottom. My AXH appears to be one of them.
And it's so cool to see how detachment and other things you can learn from reading codependency books actually work -- even if you can't make it to an Al-Anon meeting.
I'm glad you're here. Hang out, chat, vent, cry, ask questions, and GOOD LUCK!