Yes, I see that I'm going to have to come to terms with that! I have maintained a detached life since 7/13. He moved to another state this March (big promotion), but I refused to move there and give up my job and my people/ my life. The new house is 3 hours from where we did live. I'm not on the mortgage - my call. Just 2 months ago, I agreed to move there, but I'm maintaining my old job and My life here. I probably won't ever put my eggs in his basket again, but he'd been strong and steady for so long, and making all-around great changes in his life.
Got some soul searching to do.