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Old 04-22-2005, 05:42 PM
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loveanalcoholic
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: greenfield, mass
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thank you for reaching out

You have no idea how happy i was to get such a quick responce. Your reply brought tears to my eyes, yes again. If I feel in my heart that I need to be with him, do you think I will only make matters worse by calling and telling him, I think I acted too quickly and that I need him in my life and want him to come home? Will that only make him think that he was right about my "drama" and then feel like he can keep drinking and that i don't mind? He says he will quit, just not today and i know he can do it. Is there danger in being {as I've been told} a dry drunk...meaning that he quits without any outside help. Question is..do I do what my heart tells me or my head? He is the greatest guy when he is sober. Should I suggest a compromise or just tell him i want him back and not even talk to him about his drinking. I'm sorry there is so many questions...this is my first liink to anyone who loves an alcoholic. thank you for responding.
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