Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
he LEFT before you and his CHILDREN got home, after staying IN your house for a week. he misses you guys SOOOOO much that he can't BE there when you arrive.
just for me, that pretty says all I need to know.
One thing I notice about my RAH was that before he was in recovery he'd always put his feelings first. So he would be one to leave because it was 'too hard' on him.
After some treatment and now in recovery he'll do things that are hard on him because he knows it's important to me or the kids....so he'd stay, and face the feelings of having to leave, because he knew it was important that the kids get to see him.
I'd sit with it and see what his actions reveal...