thank you all for responding
I am so glad to hear that you support my taking this new relationship 'one day at a time.'
I have been very nervous about it only being a year since my separation form my A, as I know we are supposed to be careful about getting into new relationships. I am glad to hear you all be supportive and not tell me I am way off my program.
I am very happy, and I do believe Gabe's phrase "I don't think you two can kill each other with caretaking, you know?" will make him laugh as much as it did me! That sounds very much like us. LOL