boundary blunder...comical
Not new here, just haven't been on much. Just thought I would share my latest learning experience.
I set a pretty clear boundary 5 years ago with the RAXH, that I am still i. A relationship with and live with. If you touch a drop, I'm gone. No negotiations, no fights, no words. Just done. Simple, right?
Well, guess what? Since I am not a psychic, I forgot to include in the boundary no pof addictions, or porn addictions either. Silly me!!!
And so here we are, with the quack, quack, quacking. Life lesson learned. New boundary will include all self indulgences that become addictive behaviours, that is, If I get over this lovely blow. I think its easy to not take alcoholism personally, but the porn and pof, thats a struggle, but working on it.