muddy the waters ? I'd report them. I had a similar situation and immediately used the other officer that had arrived to call the Sgt. Hickies ? no one would believe that one when you went thru the trouble of reporting this .. that's an insult from them. I would fight to keep him away from you at any cost. Please don't give up, you have made it this far and i would want no contact with him. It's scary when the addict comes back afterwards to teach you a lesson. Please be careful. I learned self defense, carry a neck knife. Koga. A carry permit, handgun and learned to shoot properly. Pepper spray. Baseball bat. Air rifle and pistol. No one is taking me from my children. Especially someone like my ex. I will use any means to never let him hurt me again. I wanted my daughters to see what they deserved and how hard i would fight for my own safety for their safety.