Thanksgiving visit vs expectations
Well, my RAH came home from rehab on a 24 hour pass. Everything was wonderful.He was pleasant with my 3 adult sons and everyone enjoyed themselves. He and I had a quiet evening at home afterword. I guess I had some unrealistic expectations. He has had no interest in making love and I attributed it to the alcohol. I guess after 7 weeks sober I expected that he would now be interested in it but although he was affectionate, it stopped at that. Maybe it's to soon for him to even think about that and I know I shouldn't have expectations but I did and now instead of being grateful for having a glimpse of him as a functional human being I find myself sad and full of doubts of myself. Why doesn't he want me that way, what's wrong with me, etc. I would welcome any comments or thoughts or experiences in this area.