Originally Posted by
glitterdeva 
Hi, I am so sorry you are going through this, please know you are not alone. I am 39, AH is heroin addict and he takes subs and xanax. And who knows ...
It's nice to know I'm not alone, although I'm not sure "nice" is the rt word. Comforted? Our situations sound pretty similar. How long has this been going on for you? We've been together 4 years with the majority of problems getting worse/spiraling in the last year and then he worst has been since he found out I was pregnant. A PLANNED pregnancy. Not a surprise. It your husband working? ABF is working part time, says he is doing his online classes (I see less evidence that this could be true anymore) but doesn't put effort into looking for full time work which is something that's been going on for almost 3 years. I will be getting my own account hopefully tomorrow if I can get away from work for tht long.