Originally Posted by
Impurrfect 
walkinganewpath - don't you just LOVE those neon signs that scream "do you HEAR me?!?!?"
I did
I had an
incredibly realistic dream before I broke up with XABF in which he got sober, we got married, and then, a few kids in, he relapsed. I woke up with the biggest "oh sh**" realization that I could not stay in that relationship. Exactly what I needed.