Thank you, all. Thie consensus is to keep my mouth shut and I will do that. My husband keeps his mouth shut but then he WANTS everyone to drink with him! He has always minimized my drinking and he does the same with our daughters. But, it was rather a relief to hear from so many of you that in this instance it's okay to not say anything. Not saying anything and showing by example is different from enabling. I needed to make that distinction.
By the way, we are having a wonderful time!
