Originally Posted by
FireSprite 
You have a different battle, IMO, when you factor in Narcissism. So I could understand why your AH doesn't respond well to anything other than silence.
"Sorry I feel WHAT way?" ------> "The way you just described your feelings"
No matter what he'll work it around in circles. You have to just walk away, literally.
I try not to be in the same room with him much anymore. Helps to avoid future problems. His new favorite this is to corner me in the car. This last time I was taking him to the airport because I needed his car as mine needed some work done. He takes the opportunity to 'bring things up'. If I wanted to be a real b*tch, I guess I could have pulled over to the side of the road and told him to get a cab. I'm just not that heartless and I kept counting down the minutes, "10 minutes to airport curbside, 9 minutes to airport curbside...." Seems to work, LOL!