Yet more trouble!
The chaos is too much! We've talked it out: he says he won't "fight" me- says he understands why I want a divorce. He is in the process of getting fired from this job, too. Says "discovery motion" from lawyer would make things worse.
So....advice, please. Should I try to get a mediator? What are the downsides of doing things that way instead of through lawyer? Anyone goes through a divorce lawyer and NOT have it cost a ton of money?? Please help friends! I need to take this step and I'm scared.