Hi Kchance
The vast majority of members here are proponents for abstinence - not because of dogma, but because that's the only thing that worked for them.
Most of us have tried moderation and failed.
In fact my efforts to keep drinking nearly killed me.
That's the context of this website - and really I think it's pretty obvious to anyone who spends a little time here.
Like others have mentioned, there are other forums around where you will probably get a more positive response to a desire to moderate
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