(((((Killerinstinct))))) hugs! It takes so much courage to do what you are doing! There's that saying, "Courage is the ability to part with the familiar..." Reading about your progress made me realize i am working at a snail's pace...think i will try diving in! And i know how much better i have felt with the boundaries i have been able to set up. And thank you, Honeypig for your great post!