BF, I overheard a coworker make the womp-womp sound effect the other day. I thought of you immediately. What a sweet little reminder from the universe to send extra support vibes your way. Your resolve in the midst of these difficult situations is exactly what it takes to stay sober. And like Saskia said, you can always leave if it gets too heavy.
I'll catch up properly later on. Be well, Undies!!