Originally Posted by
FireSprite 
I'm going to go out on a limb here & add one more:
I think I've learned more about what IS worth judging another person by - looking at their actions, the realities & knowing that sometimes what sounds like a Judgment is really A Truth.
And that those truths only matter when they impact me/our relationship.
Sooooo true, FS! You said this very well.
I was such a Judgey McJudgerton for so long (even though I liked to believe that my bleeding heart liberal self loved and accepted everybody exactly as they were). Recovery has helped me see how judgmental I was about stuff that wasn't TRUTH, and has helped me see TRUTH for what it is.