Boundaries, what are those? Before my recovery work I was like an amoeba, engulfing everything and everyone in my path. Everything was personal. People didn't just do something, they did it TO ME.
I can be grateful for and enjoy one nice gesture, but not overlook a long term pattern of bad behavior because of it.
Thinking before I act (or react) has also been a huge step for me. I can do what's in my power to influence a situation then let go of the rest.
Good post. I've just been thinking what a tremendous advantage I have in certain situations because of my recovery.