Why are you settling for someone who has mood swings and a need to drink every night? This person’s behavior makes you un-happy and stressed? He has shown you exactly who and how he is and you don’t want him that way you want him to be someone he’s not.
And the fact you are not meeting anyone else is because you are settling for this guy, bad behavior and all. And now it sounds like you are trying to justify to us and probably yourself that he’s not that bad, doesn’t throw up or lose his bladder……………yah because those are the qualities most woman look for in a man!! really???
You have gone from healthy no contact with someone where the situation was going nowhere and stressing you - to a text message asking if he can call you, you stating only if he’s not mean to being right back to where you started prior to the healthy no contact and nothing has changed.
You haven’t changed in two weeks, he hasn’t changed in two weeks……………..so moving forward with him what expectations are running through your head?