zj, slide a sheet of plywood under that mattress. That will help and is cheap. And touch. Not sexy touch, just touch. It does wonders for a relationship. Just touch.
Lol I thought i was crazy thinking of the plywood idea hahha. I have not tried it yet tho. I was going to put it on top tho and just sleep on that. I've been trying the whole touch thing. I'd almost prefer that sometimes what comes out of her mouth stings too bad.