As to the original question: No, lot's of people thought I was an arrogant ******* for a long time. My BIL thought(thinks?) it because I can do everything he can't and I go do it when my sister asks. I've tried to tell him that the only difference is I try and fail until I learn how to do it right. THAT pissed him off. To him, it was like I was saying he doesn't even try to do things. Well?
All you can do is be your new and improved self.