strange thing is all at the same time she has told me she's happy i lost weight and sobered up etc... maybe shes happy for me but not happy with how it makes her feel?
I get the vibe she wants her habits etc.. validated. I no longer sit down and plow the ice cream along side her or what not simply not doing that tells her i'm not validating her behaivior. but what can i do? I'm trying to eat healthy and such.