If there is one thing loving an addict has taught me, it is not to be judgmental. I had always considered myself to be a non-judgmental person before but now I truly understand the meaning. There is nothing worse than going through the most difficult thing to ever have happened to you and have to listen to other people's opinions about it.
For those people who haven't embraced that, too bad for them. I honestly pity them for being so small-minded.
Keep doing what you know is best for you and your daughters. Other people can eff off!