Ooooh,
Big hugs, sweetie!!! I'm so proud of you. In all ways--you have made such stunning progress!
I did share the house with my (sober--then and now) first husband for a few months for practical, child-care reasons. The way I put it to him then was, "As long as you don't make it too difficult to stay, I will stay." He only lost it one time (threw a phone--not at me--when he was very angry), and it worked out fine. He even loaned me his van when it was time for me to move out.
Can't say how it will work out for you, but fingers crossed. If it gets too difficult I have a hundred percent confidence you will figure out a solution.
Big hugs, now go knock off for the rest of the day.
