Parent enablers
I am separated from AH. My in laws take care of everything for my ex. And also keep him sober and inline, something I was never able to do. Now I am starting to think this might be the issue. Everything works when they are around. Of course they won't talk to me and are still mad at me for leaving their son and I am the one blamed when he has problems....
Does anyone have a similar setup and where your partners parents are not only what keeps things together for AH but also the thorn in your side?