I am seperating from my A husband. He doesn't seem to get it. He said if I leave I am dead to him and he will file for divorce. It hurts to have such terrible things hurled at me. I don't want to leave...but I have to get well. His answer for dealing with this is coming home at 2 am last night so drunk he couldn't figure out how to get into the house. I hope for him to get help and find out who he is...I'd like to meet that guy. He is his own person he has his own choices. But I forgot I have them too. I don't have to live the life he wants to live. My children deserve better most of all. Thank you for your story. I need all the hope I can get right now.