Hi..sending out lots of prayers for your son and you! I hope this is it for him. When my RAD went to another state it was her third attempt also. She spent 45 days in rehab and then 8 months in a half way house. She did fantastic! She came home after that and had a very short lived relapse but knew that she did better in the state where she found recovery. She is now supporting herself and working a program. I hate that she is so far away and can never live here again but she is clean!!!