Originally Posted by
Melina 
I'm not lying when I say he honestly was blindsided.
Now here's the thing...unhealthy, intimacy-crippled people find each other like moth's to a flame.
Does this fellow have ANY insight as to how he ended up with an addict? I think it's prudent he finds out...and you do.
I just a had a painful experience with what I thought was a "normie"...who had two marriages in his wake... one with an alcoholic and one with another with a pill addiction. He was also the child of an alcoholic.
And well...he was the "good guy" in both relationships and they were "crazy biotches"...
I was too blinded by hope to listen to the whispers and nigglings from my gut...
My sobriety HAS to be job 1...and you know what?
I can actually make sense of things with a clear head....eventually.