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Old 11-12-2014, 11:26 PM
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Vale
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Twofish wrote:

>>>>>Today I got my divorce papers. Should I be surprised?
I'm not surprised my marriage did not survive.<<<<<<<<<

Dear TF,

I am not going to try to sling my usual horsecrap against the wall
to see what sticks.......we as an SR group will just quietly listen and
grieve with you. Sometimes less is more.

No cheer up schtick.....(AKA duck poop!) ---sometimes we just need to
acknowledge what people are going through without whipping out the
toolbox in some frenetic half-duck-assed attempt to "fix" things.

ALL of us are sorry you are hurting....and we hope (very much) that
it doesn't hurt too long. We cannot cure your hurt, TF. All we can do is
promise you don't hurt alone.
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