Originally Posted by
SeriousKarma 
I refuse to believe that my love (whatever that meant) was wasted on a con-man, or a Body-Snatcher Pod Person, who was incapable of valuing the love I gave him.
I relate to this! Saturday, in between his Friday drinking-fest and his Sunday drinking-fest, I had suggested he come with me to a local event I was interested in, on a topic I've increasingly been pursuing as a really deep-seated interest.
He said yes right away, enthusiastically. My "con-man" feelers went up. We went, and on the way home he was so excited. He was asking my questions on the topic and being enthusiastic overall, and my thought was, are you just saying this? Is this another form of manipulation? Do you really care, or is this just another chit in the I-can-make-her-adore-me bank?
Does he value the love? That's a great question.