MIRecovery...I'am so very sorry for your loss of your Daughter. I could not even begin to cope with something like that and I hope and pray I never have too.
Knowing of your pain makes my issues seem minscual by comparison. My Daughter is alive and well and so is HER Daughter but I chose to take my Alcoholic Nature out on them and chose to drink. How DARE I stoop that low !!!
The only way I can come even close to feeling your pain is to langwich in my shame.
Overwhelming guilt and shame is the price I pay for my actions by "blaming" them on someone else. You payed a much higher price for something you had no control over and I'am so sorry.
Again, my condolences to you and your family.
Dave