Hi Stewy. That all sounds very stressful. I do not think drinking on it will help in the situation with your ex and your daughter though, right? How old is your daughter? Is she old enough to talk to about how she feels, maybe not? And you do not want her in the middle of a conflict between the adults. I hope that is not what your ex is doing. It is very unfair for a child to be used to manipulate a parent.
Hang in there and try to do something fun with your daughter?