Hi Dave
I'm not a relationships counsellor...but it sounds like you guys could use one.
What I do know is...people will ask you if you want a drink...sometimes they will be people who should know better.
Sometimes the very people we want to will not congratulate you on your hard work, or give any thought to how a situation might be hard for you and your recovery.
That's human beings and adult life tho.
The bottom line is it's your job - noone else's - to say no thanks.
I *know* you have a lot of problems and stresses and resentments - I'm not saying you can't be upset about that - but if you want change, you can't drink on it man.
You can choose to be a passive victim...or an active captain of your ship,
Choose wisely Dave,
D