^^^^^ Yes, page! I've said 100 times or more I would quit to my husband in the past. He still drinks on the weekends, but no where near the problem I have with drinking. He would pick me up some alcohol tonight if I asked him to. Just for the fact we have been through this rollercoaster before and he would want to make me happy. Non-alcoholics don't always understand.
Dave, maybe your wife suggested the beers because she thought "why not, it is our anniversary" People who don't have drinking problems don't see the harm in celebrating typically and don't understand. I can't say much about why she didn't get you a gift or card. Have you two always done gifts during anniversaries in the past? Maybe she assumed the dinners were enough and had no idea you were planning to give her roses and a 4k diamond?