Originally Posted by Aquiana
Is there anyone else who can't figure out where all the strength and courage that was there at one time went? There was a time in my life not too long ago even that there was't a snowballs chance in he*& that I would have put up with even a fraction of the disrespect that comes out of abf sometimes.
I've thought about this too. I think it has to do with letting go of my boundaries. My AH used to tell me all the time I was psycho. I wanted to do everything I could to make him happy and I wanted to grow old with my highschool sweetheart. I think I was brainwashed. I was made to believe that most of what happened was my fault. And me being the "fixer" that I was, I believed him.
Well.....That fight in me is back. And he will NEVER treat me the way he has ever again.
(You guys will help me if I slip, right?)