I "quit" a hairdresser once because I grew tired of her incessant rants and the way she heard what she wanted to hear. The final straw was when she misrepresented details of my job (despite that I had corrected her on several occasions!) to a third party. Once I stopped seeing her I realized how stressed I had become when I had an appointment. there are other stylists out there, and not all of them suck the life out of you.